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		<title>By: nikix</title>
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		<dc:creator>nikix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 01:27:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find the anime soo touching. After reading Yanokun&#039;s post, I was totally &#039;O_O&#039;. Like, &quot;OMG! That happened?!&quot; Maybe the anime&#039;s ending is much better than the manga&#039;s. At least, it ended knowing that the both of them will be waiting for each other for a year. There won&#039;t be any broken promises or whatsoever.

I like Yano. He&#039;s sweet especially when he talks to Nana and tells her that he loves her. :)


btw, where can I download English manga of Bokura ga Ita? 

----&gt; guys, you would also love Kimi ni Todoke! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find the anime soo touching. After reading Yanokun&#8217;s post, I was totally &#8216;O_O&#8217;. Like, &#8220;OMG! That happened?!&#8221; Maybe the anime&#8217;s ending is much better than the manga&#8217;s. At least, it ended knowing that the both of them will be waiting for each other for a year. There won&#8217;t be any broken promises or whatsoever.</p>
<p>I like Yano. He&#8217;s sweet especially when he talks to Nana and tells her that he loves her. <img src='http://that.animeblogger.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>btw, where can I download English manga of Bokura ga Ita? </p>
<p>&#8212;-&gt; guys, you would also love Kimi ni Todoke! <img src='http://that.animeblogger.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Nica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 12:14:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hope yano and nanami will have a happy ending. huhuhuhu 
please please email me if you do know about the finale ^_^
love yah. add me in gmail popthatglock@gmail.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hope yano and nanami will have a happy ending. huhuhuhu<br />
please please email me if you do know about the finale ^_^<br />
love yah. add me in gmail <a href="mailto:popthatglock@gmail.com">popthatglock@gmail.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: nice</title>
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		<dc:creator>nice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 16:29:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>waaa i need the ending huhuhuhu.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>waaa i need the ending huhuhuhu.</p>
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		<title>By: JLS A. RUEDA</title>
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		<dc:creator>JLS A. RUEDA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 07:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>After missing Bokura ga Ita season 1, I tried looking for season 2 but to no avail. I hope there will be season 2. 

Watching again the anime I seem can&#039;t help it to compare it to Marmalade Boy, they both reflects pains and sweetness of loving and the complications inflicted with these feelings and life itself. A forgotten promise and questions can&#039;t be answered or be given a right one. You may think &quot;what if&#039;, this is suppose to be or not be as you feel aggravated by unfairness of fighting for your right to be happy yet circumstances always a blocking block to counter your path. Emotions are a very hard enemy to conquer. Nobody knows if you win or loss in this category. 

Unfortunately, bokura ga ita ended with a very painful reality of unknown answers for its results while Marmalade Boy ended with a happy one thought in reality in manga the writer really ended it with a painful and sad ending too but it was reconstructed to a happy ending later on, while bokura was still not yet finish and no one knows when it will give its last episode to reveal its end whether it will be sad or a happy end to both the characters.
JLS</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After missing Bokura ga Ita season 1, I tried looking for season 2 but to no avail. I hope there will be season 2. </p>
<p>Watching again the anime I seem can&#8217;t help it to compare it to Marmalade Boy, they both reflects pains and sweetness of loving and the complications inflicted with these feelings and life itself. A forgotten promise and questions can&#8217;t be answered or be given a right one. You may think &#8220;what if&#8217;, this is suppose to be or not be as you feel aggravated by unfairness of fighting for your right to be happy yet circumstances always a blocking block to counter your path. Emotions are a very hard enemy to conquer. Nobody knows if you win or loss in this category. </p>
<p>Unfortunately, bokura ga ita ended with a very painful reality of unknown answers for its results while Marmalade Boy ended with a happy one thought in reality in manga the writer really ended it with a painful and sad ending too but it was reconstructed to a happy ending later on, while bokura was still not yet finish and no one knows when it will give its last episode to reveal its end whether it will be sad or a happy end to both the characters.<br />
JLS</p>
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		<title>By: jon</title>
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		<dc:creator>jon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 07:31:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*sigh*

this really brought me back to high school, I miss those days...

I guess we really were all there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*sigh*</p>
<p>this really brought me back to high school, I miss those days&#8230;</p>
<p>I guess we really were all there.</p>
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		<title>By: JLS A. RUEDA</title>
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		<dc:creator>JLS A. RUEDA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 04:42:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The shoujo is nice and very redeeming of its kind, the story was good and I wished that it has a season 2 (like in manga). Yes, it reminds a lot of our youthful days where we fall in love and very undecided of the feeling which lead us to think if it was real or unreel or just a passing fancy of being young. Yet, the writer had definitely reveal the real thing of life that we conquer or be defeated by life itself and it&#039;s up to us to be strong to go on and just let memories as memories. Thought it had ended with so many questions, I still salute the writer of giving it a realistic ending. There could never be an ending that will result on happiness or sadness, it&#039;s up to us to make it. The characters seems to be alive for me but I guess, it&#039;s what just what I see it. Loving someone do give pains and it is pains that make us stronger or weaker.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The shoujo is nice and very redeeming of its kind, the story was good and I wished that it has a season 2 (like in manga). Yes, it reminds a lot of our youthful days where we fall in love and very undecided of the feeling which lead us to think if it was real or unreel or just a passing fancy of being young. Yet, the writer had definitely reveal the real thing of life that we conquer or be defeated by life itself and it&#8217;s up to us to be strong to go on and just let memories as memories. Thought it had ended with so many questions, I still salute the writer of giving it a realistic ending. There could never be an ending that will result on happiness or sadness, it&#8217;s up to us to make it. The characters seems to be alive for me but I guess, it&#8217;s what just what I see it. Loving someone do give pains and it is pains that make us stronger or weaker.</p>
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		<title>By: Lovellina-Dristina(Lovela= Love-vel-aa)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lovellina-Dristina(Lovela= Love-vel-aa)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 06:18:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Serena: I can&#039;t wait too.. Oh Obata Sensei please don&#039;t make us wait too long- I&#039;m in agony!

@Anna: Totally- (Yuri)I mean com&#039;on get out of his life already!

I guess the writer made it this way because they lied to much to each other. Yano and Nana broke their promises a few times? Haven&#039;t they? So... this time trust, love and time is all they need to mend the love. I really feel sorry for Take after what he&#039;s done for Nana but it&#039;s good that Nana turned down his engagement proposal. &quot;I&#039;ll take her away from you in a heartbeat.&quot; quote by Take. Which made Yano&#039;s eyes kinda 0_o(pop). I think Nana will still be friends with Take. I don&#039;t want him to do anything with Yuri so Nana can forget him.. No! No! NO!!! Please Obata Sensei- your a genius! Figure out someway to make Yano fall head over heels for Nana again, she deserves it after the wait.

A few promises that they broke(Yano and Nana):

They promised each other never to leave each others side(Yano goes to Tokyo).
Nana said she&#039;ll wait for him(now she&#039;s dating Take).
Yano said in a year he&#039;ll come searching for her(he did try to and called once but never came face-to-face).
Yano have dated several women(which is a broken promise).
Nana promised she&#039;ll keep quiet and listen to Yano&#039;s heart and feelings(but she couldn&#039;t stand it and broke up with him.)

I guess in the end they are left with MEMORIES. Sometimes, I feel that boys can act real stupid! Boys, you don&#039;t even have a clue that we love you when it&#039;s stuck in front of your face!(no offense). URGH!! Give up already Yano, we know you&#039;re still in love with her! 0_o.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Serena: I can&#8217;t wait too.. Oh Obata Sensei please don&#8217;t make us wait too long- I&#8217;m in agony!</p>
<p>@Anna: Totally- (Yuri)I mean com&#8217;on get out of his life already!</p>
<p>I guess the writer made it this way because they lied to much to each other. Yano and Nana broke their promises a few times? Haven&#8217;t they? So&#8230; this time trust, love and time is all they need to mend the love. I really feel sorry for Take after what he&#8217;s done for Nana but it&#8217;s good that Nana turned down his engagement proposal. &#8220;I&#8217;ll take her away from you in a heartbeat.&#8221; quote by Take. Which made Yano&#8217;s eyes kinda 0_o(pop). I think Nana will still be friends with Take. I don&#8217;t want him to do anything with Yuri so Nana can forget him.. No! No! NO!!! Please Obata Sensei- your a genius! Figure out someway to make Yano fall head over heels for Nana again, she deserves it after the wait.</p>
<p>A few promises that they broke(Yano and Nana):</p>
<p>They promised each other never to leave each others side(Yano goes to Tokyo).<br />
Nana said she&#8217;ll wait for him(now she&#8217;s dating Take).<br />
Yano said in a year he&#8217;ll come searching for her(he did try to and called once but never came face-to-face).<br />
Yano have dated several women(which is a broken promise).<br />
Nana promised she&#8217;ll keep quiet and listen to Yano&#8217;s heart and feelings(but she couldn&#8217;t stand it and broke up with him.)</p>
<p>I guess in the end they are left with MEMORIES. Sometimes, I feel that boys can act real stupid! Boys, you don&#8217;t even have a clue that we love you when it&#8217;s stuck in front of your face!(no offense). URGH!! Give up already Yano, we know you&#8217;re still in love with her! 0_o.</p>
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		<title>By: yukino</title>
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		<dc:creator>yukino</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 07:52:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I avoided this anime despite the many positive reviews of it, because I knew I would end up hating it since it&#039;s a sob story full of emotional scenes that were meant to be poignant but become over the top after numerous episodes. And then there&#039;s the weepy heroine, one of the major reasons I&#039;ve ditched a great deal of shoujo manga/anime I&#039;ve encountered. I might just be majorly biased as that I&#039;ve never actually watched the actual show, but I&#039;ve seen a great deal of counterparts of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I avoided this anime despite the many positive reviews of it, because I knew I would end up hating it since it&#8217;s a sob story full of emotional scenes that were meant to be poignant but become over the top after numerous episodes. And then there&#8217;s the weepy heroine, one of the major reasons I&#8217;ve ditched a great deal of shoujo manga/anime I&#8217;ve encountered. I might just be majorly biased as that I&#8217;ve never actually watched the actual show, but I&#8217;ve seen a great deal of counterparts of it.</p>
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		<title>By: Lovellina-Dristina(Lovela= Love-vel-aa)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lovellina-Dristina(Lovela= Love-vel-aa)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 02:10:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just my personal view- don&#039;t get me wrong! This is just an Anime :D!

Well, I really loved the series and all the challenges they went through. 
At first, I thought Yano was a really &#039;cold&#039; jerk but later on he expressed his feelings publicly, tried getting her attention and lessen his &#039;cool&#039; just to get Nana back. She ignored him most of the time, ran away and they broke-up. But a promise is and will always be a promise, until one person breaks the promise. Yanana(hehehe.. Yano X Nana) are perfect for each other but sometimes, when it&#039;s too perfect- everything goes wrong. I don&#039;t know about you guys, but I completely hate Yuri! Remember the last lines she said, &quot;I have something I want there.&quot;(or something like that). I think she&#039;s a *tut*(I&#039;m sorry for cursing) for trying to take him away. Obviously, he&#039;s not interested from what I&#039;ve seen in the manga, he just feels sorry. I hope Yanana rekindle their romance. Awww, poor Take, can there be a 85% possibility he can fall in love with Aki? 

@YanoKun: You brighten up my day Man! There&#039;s still hope :D Even if it&#039;s just an anime.. I&#039;ll love it forever(hehee.. not really- just until I find something to play around with or read or watch!)

and to the others who hate Yuki Yamamoto too- I LOVE YOU GUYS! hahhahahaa.. lolz</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just my personal view- don&#8217;t get me wrong! This is just an Anime <img src='http://that.animeblogger.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> !</p>
<p>Well, I really loved the series and all the challenges they went through.<br />
At first, I thought Yano was a really &#8216;cold&#8217; jerk but later on he expressed his feelings publicly, tried getting her attention and lessen his &#8216;cool&#8217; just to get Nana back. She ignored him most of the time, ran away and they broke-up. But a promise is and will always be a promise, until one person breaks the promise. Yanana(hehehe.. Yano X Nana) are perfect for each other but sometimes, when it&#8217;s too perfect- everything goes wrong. I don&#8217;t know about you guys, but I completely hate Yuri! Remember the last lines she said, &#8220;I have something I want there.&#8221;(or something like that). I think she&#8217;s a *tut*(I&#8217;m sorry for cursing) for trying to take him away. Obviously, he&#8217;s not interested from what I&#8217;ve seen in the manga, he just feels sorry. I hope Yanana rekindle their romance. Awww, poor Take, can there be a 85% possibility he can fall in love with Aki? </p>
<p>@YanoKun: You brighten up my day Man! There&#8217;s still hope <img src='http://that.animeblogger.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  Even if it&#8217;s just an anime.. I&#8217;ll love it forever(hehee.. not really- just until I find something to play around with or read or watch!)</p>
<p>and to the others who hate Yuki Yamamoto too- I LOVE YOU GUYS! hahhahahaa.. lolz</p>
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		<title>By: Yanokun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yanokun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 11:58:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*soilers included* This is going to be long so bear with me please. Also if you don&#039;t want any SPOILERS of the Manga please skip this. lol I just finished watching and reading everything and I&#039;ve never been so impressed with an anime/manga ever before. It was so realistic, true to life, whatever you want to call it. Love, life, friendships...It had it all, including characters with great complexity. The origin of human insecurities, the responsibilities coming into adulthood, the truth behind love...good God I never cried so much watching an anime before! lol

Sometimes you can&#039;t help who you love and You certainly cannot choose who you love. Someone else might come along and be more &quot;correct&quot; in HOW they love you but if the feelings aren&#039;t there then they just aren&#039;t. Love is not some manufactured feeling. It comes naturally.

I was sad at the ending and I craved more...lol So I looked up the manga and my goodness, it was tragic and amazing. We have more of the complexity of the characters showing through. We see Yano completely dedicated to Takahashi while being away...he tries to go to see her two times but each time, the situation with his mom prevents him. The second time he tries to go he finds his mom dead. She hangs herself. Yikes. =( I felt so sad for him. And from that moment, it&#039;s almost like he can&#039;t think straight anymore.

Yano vanishes for years from everyone&#039;s life. Takeuchi and Nana are still friends. Nana is still waiting inside for Yano to come back to her 5 years later. Take is still in love with her. He tries to get her to give up on Yano, saying he&#039;s never coming back. They try a relationship together finally but I notice through every moment they have together Nana is still thinking of Yano. If it&#039;s not her still missing him, it&#039;s her comparing Take to Yano. It&#039;s sad. She can&#039;t move on really because of the promise she made to him. I think this is where I realized how profound their relationship was. It brought me back to when she started healing him from the loss of the first Nana who died. She told him she&#039;d always be there, that she&#039;d protect him, that she&#039;d never leave his side. And the truth is I think Yano believed she wouldn&#039;t wait...that she wouldn&#039;t be able to keep that promise. 

Nana speaks to her mom, who asks whatever happened to that boy Yano...Nana says he left her. She reflects back to the fact that her parents were highschool sweethearts and she&#039;d always hoped her and Yano would follow the same pattern. She&#039;s hopeless lol feeling like a fool for believing it (which gives me more hope that in the end her and Yano WILL be together again. I really believe that). It&#039;s at that time that her mom remembers that Yano called a year after he left asking about Nana. This prompts Nana into wondering why he contacted her. (maybe he never did give up on her inside -- that hope brings back more feelings). She tells Take, who then tells her that Yano came to him and told him he was giving up on everything from his past and that he was giving Nana to him, &quot;Take care of her&quot;, he says and he tells Take that it&#039;s his fault his mom died. Take believed he&#039;d come back but he never did.

Take and her continue dating. Nana meets an old friend of Yano&#039;s at work, who remembers Takahashi&#039;s name from her memories of Yano. Aki (Yano&#039;s friend) and Nana become friends. We see that Yuri hasn&#039;t given up on Yano and pathetically stalks him. She&#039;s a mess. I hate her. lol Yano obviously doesn&#039;t love her or anything. He feels sympathy for her. It looks like she tries to commit suicide after Yano rejects her for the 3485745345387534 time. lol

Aki finds Yano. He&#039;s a designer now and is working with the company Aki and Nana work for. Aki meets up with Yano, who say he knows where Takahashi is and that she&#039;s with Take. He also says it was the way he wanted it. Nobody can quite understand his logic but we see that he is shaken up by the meeting. His thoughts run from memories of Nana saying they love each other and his inner dialogue of &quot;Hate me, I&#039;ll betray you. I&#039;ll trample all over your trust. Despise me and then bury me.&quot; UGH! We then see he&#039;s living with Yuri. 

No words. lol

Chapter 50, Take proposes to Nana. She rejects him. 

Chapter 51, it starts off with Yano having a nightmare about Take and Nana&#039;s wedding. This was a breakthrough moment for me, because you can obviously see he still loves her. He wakes up from a drunken night with his friends. He&#039;s obviously not attached as they show him with lipstick on his face. Other women are meaningless to him. But we see Yano with a box of different cake slices. His friends comment that he&#039;s been doing this same thing every year for 6 years. He celebrates her birthday regardless of them being apart. We then see Nana looking for Yano. She sees the back of someone who looks like Yano and they leave it as a cliff hanger.

I love it...especially since the movie they used to see together as teenagers was about two people who keep missing each other...and finally at the end they find one another. I&#039;m really hoping it&#039;s a good ending to the manga but great show.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*soilers included* This is going to be long so bear with me please. Also if you don&#8217;t want any SPOILERS of the Manga please skip this. lol I just finished watching and reading everything and I&#8217;ve never been so impressed with an anime/manga ever before. It was so realistic, true to life, whatever you want to call it. Love, life, friendships&#8230;It had it all, including characters with great complexity. The origin of human insecurities, the responsibilities coming into adulthood, the truth behind love&#8230;good God I never cried so much watching an anime before! lol</p>
<p>Sometimes you can&#8217;t help who you love and You certainly cannot choose who you love. Someone else might come along and be more &#8220;correct&#8221; in HOW they love you but if the feelings aren&#8217;t there then they just aren&#8217;t. Love is not some manufactured feeling. It comes naturally.</p>
<p>I was sad at the ending and I craved more&#8230;lol So I looked up the manga and my goodness, it was tragic and amazing. We have more of the complexity of the characters showing through. We see Yano completely dedicated to Takahashi while being away&#8230;he tries to go to see her two times but each time, the situation with his mom prevents him. The second time he tries to go he finds his mom dead. She hangs herself. Yikes. =( I felt so sad for him. And from that moment, it&#8217;s almost like he can&#8217;t think straight anymore.</p>
<p>Yano vanishes for years from everyone&#8217;s life. Takeuchi and Nana are still friends. Nana is still waiting inside for Yano to come back to her 5 years later. Take is still in love with her. He tries to get her to give up on Yano, saying he&#8217;s never coming back. They try a relationship together finally but I notice through every moment they have together Nana is still thinking of Yano. If it&#8217;s not her still missing him, it&#8217;s her comparing Take to Yano. It&#8217;s sad. She can&#8217;t move on really because of the promise she made to him. I think this is where I realized how profound their relationship was. It brought me back to when she started healing him from the loss of the first Nana who died. She told him she&#8217;d always be there, that she&#8217;d protect him, that she&#8217;d never leave his side. And the truth is I think Yano believed she wouldn&#8217;t wait&#8230;that she wouldn&#8217;t be able to keep that promise. </p>
<p>Nana speaks to her mom, who asks whatever happened to that boy Yano&#8230;Nana says he left her. She reflects back to the fact that her parents were highschool sweethearts and she&#8217;d always hoped her and Yano would follow the same pattern. She&#8217;s hopeless lol feeling like a fool for believing it (which gives me more hope that in the end her and Yano WILL be together again. I really believe that). It&#8217;s at that time that her mom remembers that Yano called a year after he left asking about Nana. This prompts Nana into wondering why he contacted her. (maybe he never did give up on her inside &#8212; that hope brings back more feelings). She tells Take, who then tells her that Yano came to him and told him he was giving up on everything from his past and that he was giving Nana to him, &#8220;Take care of her&#8221;, he says and he tells Take that it&#8217;s his fault his mom died. Take believed he&#8217;d come back but he never did.</p>
<p>Take and her continue dating. Nana meets an old friend of Yano&#8217;s at work, who remembers Takahashi&#8217;s name from her memories of Yano. Aki (Yano&#8217;s friend) and Nana become friends. We see that Yuri hasn&#8217;t given up on Yano and pathetically stalks him. She&#8217;s a mess. I hate her. lol Yano obviously doesn&#8217;t love her or anything. He feels sympathy for her. It looks like she tries to commit suicide after Yano rejects her for the 3485745345387534 time. lol</p>
<p>Aki finds Yano. He&#8217;s a designer now and is working with the company Aki and Nana work for. Aki meets up with Yano, who say he knows where Takahashi is and that she&#8217;s with Take. He also says it was the way he wanted it. Nobody can quite understand his logic but we see that he is shaken up by the meeting. His thoughts run from memories of Nana saying they love each other and his inner dialogue of &#8220;Hate me, I&#8217;ll betray you. I&#8217;ll trample all over your trust. Despise me and then bury me.&#8221; UGH! We then see he&#8217;s living with Yuri. </p>
<p>No words. lol</p>
<p>Chapter 50, Take proposes to Nana. She rejects him. </p>
<p>Chapter 51, it starts off with Yano having a nightmare about Take and Nana&#8217;s wedding. This was a breakthrough moment for me, because you can obviously see he still loves her. He wakes up from a drunken night with his friends. He&#8217;s obviously not attached as they show him with lipstick on his face. Other women are meaningless to him. But we see Yano with a box of different cake slices. His friends comment that he&#8217;s been doing this same thing every year for 6 years. He celebrates her birthday regardless of them being apart. We then see Nana looking for Yano. She sees the back of someone who looks like Yano and they leave it as a cliff hanger.</p>
<p>I love it&#8230;especially since the movie they used to see together as teenagers was about two people who keep missing each other&#8230;and finally at the end they find one another. I&#8217;m really hoping it&#8217;s a good ending to the manga but great show.</p>
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		<title>By: serena</title>
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		<dc:creator>serena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 22:29:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really need chapter 52 of the manga to come out. lol This was my favorite romantic anime and I need Yano and Takahashi to be together in the end since they still love each other. So sad that it&#039;s not out yet. lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really need chapter 52 of the manga to come out. lol This was my favorite romantic anime and I need Yano and Takahashi to be together in the end since they still love each other. So sad that it&#8217;s not out yet. lol</p>
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		<title>By: phlyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>phlyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2008 16:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve just finished watching this anime and I really love it even though it&#039;s such a sad and bitter story... (&gt;_&lt;) I really like the songs played in this anime especially the insert song played at the end of episode 18 when nana was comforting yano, saying that she believed that nana-san actually regretted leaving yano behind and she was watching over him in heaven (19.00 min - 22.40 min)... That song was really very sad but nice.... I&#039;ve been searching high and low for the song but to no avail... it seems like it&#039;s not included in its OST album. Does anyone know where can i download that insert song from? What is the title of the song? Who was the singer of that song? Please help me if you know!!! Onegaishimasu &amp; Arigatou!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve just finished watching this anime and I really love it even though it&#8217;s such a sad and bitter story&#8230; (&gt;_&lt;) I really like the songs played in this anime especially the insert song played at the end of episode 18 when nana was comforting yano, saying that she believed that nana-san actually regretted leaving yano behind and she was watching over him in heaven (19.00 min &#8211; 22.40 min)&#8230; That song was really very sad but nice&#8230;. I&#8217;ve been searching high and low for the song but to no avail&#8230; it seems like it&#8217;s not included in its OST album. Does anyone know where can i download that insert song from? What is the title of the song? Who was the singer of that song? Please help me if you know!!! Onegaishimasu &amp; Arigatou!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: nanami</title>
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		<dc:creator>nanami</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 06:12:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi!!...is dis d end of bokura ga ita??...i love it sooo  much !!!!i cried when it ands i really did i was sooo sad waaaahhh...ilove bokura ga ita more dan mah life it mah fave anime!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi!!&#8230;is dis d end of bokura ga ita??&#8230;i love it sooo  much !!!!i cried when it ands i really did i was sooo sad waaaahhh&#8230;ilove bokura ga ita more dan mah life it mah fave anime!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 17:53:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The manga chapters are posted up to chapter 43 on mangafox.com but the manga translators skipped chapters 13-31 b/c they wanted to do the story from where the anime left off after yano left for tokyo(since there was no season 2). 
The main story right now is that Yano didn&#039;t contact Nana for 5 years and she&#039;s waiting for him. He disappears after his mother commits suicide (he feels guilty) and no one knows where he is. That is until Takeuchi breaks the news to Nana that Yano did contact him around the time after his mother&#039;s funeral, and that yano decided to throw away his past. later aki finds out where he is, and yano and nana both know where each other are but don&#039;t try to meet. yano is living with yanamoto yuri currently (ew). on nana&#039;s birthday takeuchi proposes to her but she rejects him. in chapter 51 nana resolves to look for yano. at the train station she sees someone that looks like him and with tears in her eyes she cries out his name but then the chapter ends there. damn. where is chapter 52?? is it even out yet?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The manga chapters are posted up to chapter 43 on mangafox.com but the manga translators skipped chapters 13-31 b/c they wanted to do the story from where the anime left off after yano left for tokyo(since there was no season 2).<br />
The main story right now is that Yano didn&#8217;t contact Nana for 5 years and she&#8217;s waiting for him. He disappears after his mother commits suicide (he feels guilty) and no one knows where he is. That is until Takeuchi breaks the news to Nana that Yano did contact him around the time after his mother&#8217;s funeral, and that yano decided to throw away his past. later aki finds out where he is, and yano and nana both know where each other are but don&#8217;t try to meet. yano is living with yanamoto yuri currently (ew). on nana&#8217;s birthday takeuchi proposes to her but she rejects him. in chapter 51 nana resolves to look for yano. at the train station she sees someone that looks like him and with tears in her eyes she cries out his name but then the chapter ends there. damn. where is chapter 52?? is it even out yet?</p>
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		<title>By: chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 02:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>im new to anime i been watching it for 2 year and bokura ga ita is the only one caught my heart i cant wait till the next season come one but i heard in the magna tha is im the only one cant see  Takahashi going out with  Takeuchi i can only see her and yano go out i hope the author dont make the anime go like the magna it hurted my to see it ended like that they need eachother but tell me is it just me or you ok they go there way</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>im new to anime i been watching it for 2 year and bokura ga ita is the only one caught my heart i cant wait till the next season come one but i heard in the magna tha is im the only one cant see  Takahashi going out with  Takeuchi i can only see her and yano go out i hope the author dont make the anime go like the magna it hurted my to see it ended like that they need eachother but tell me is it just me or you ok they go there way</p>
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